This holiday season take the test and discover if you’re a Giver or a Taker. “Give me money!” is one of the few English phrases children in Malawi have learnt. There they stand along the bumpy roadside waving their hands in expectation. What have we Westerners taught them? On the beach it’s hard to take a walk without someone coming up, nice and friendly, “How are you? Where are you from?” and after that the sympathy stories ooze forth. “I’m a poor student.” “I have many hungry children.” After a while I find myself having very unchristian thoughts! What about…